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I have no living friends in Iraq now
In most parts of the world, the end of the year is a time to reminisce about the best of the past and look to the future with a hopeful eye. Iraq is not like the rest of the world. For me, it is a time to update my death list. The latest entry is my ex-girlfriend.
When I received messages on my cellphone from friends saying, "Please accept my condolences," I asked one of them, "What happened?" Another message came that explained that my ex-girlfriend was killed in the Dec. 8 bombings in Baghdad.
Since the American invasion of Iraq in 2003, I had kept a list of every relative or friend killed in violence. As of late 2006, I counted 124 deaths. Suddenly I stopped. No. 125 was my father.
My father had told me a few weeks prior to his tragic death that his phone book was filled with telephone numbers of killed and missing people. He was soon to join the list.